Tom van Berckel

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Tom van Berckel

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Welcome to my website. I’ve always loved self development and inner transformation. On a deep level I enjoy the feeling of freedom, and emotional peace. I also love human beings, I find us all fascinating and inspiring. It always made sense that I should fuse my love for transformation, with helping others. Along the way it is personal adversity that has forced me to dig deeper and commit to mastering my craft. As you can see I’ve trained in many different approaches, partly because I am a bit of a geek, and also each one offers something unique. I wanted to create an original and engaging therapeutic experience, and shift some of the stigma around traditional therapeutic approaches. I believe Therapy and coaching can be inspiring, engaging, and fulfilling. It really is an honour for me to spend time with others and contribute in any way to their life path. I consider myself a good generalist, the systems I’ve learned are well suited for most conditions. I tend to treat problems like systems. Sometimes magically when we adjust one part of the system everything else can shift.

My journey

My journey

My deepest insights into transformation come not just from my studies, but from my own lived experience of adversity. In 2014, my life came to an abrupt standstill due to severe vestibular health challenges that left me completely disabled for nearly a decade. I could no longer walk, balance, use technology, or engage with the world as I once did. This extreme suffering became my greatest teacher, pushing me beyond limitation and guiding me through a hero’s journey of resilience, surrender, and renewal. This profound experience reshaped my view of suffering. It revealed that within our darkest struggles lies the potential for profound growth, self-discovery, and transformation. Today, I bring this deep understanding into my work, helping others turn adversity into strength, wisdom, and self-mastery. My work is multifaceted and integrative. I draw from an extensive range of therapeutic disciplines. Beyond therapy, I have designed corporate training programs, created CBT-driven AI chatbots for tech companies, and developed transformative coaching systems that challenge conventional models. If you’re ready to navigate change, break free from limitations, and step into your fullest potential, I invite you to begin this journey with me.

My journey of learning over the
last 20 years.

Skills & training

Cognitive
Behavioural

My core training is in CBT and REBT, having completed an MSc at Goldsmiths, University of London. Recently I’ve worked for the NHS for two years as a Schema CBT therapist. Learning to question my own narratives and practice unconditional self-acceptance has been life changing. CBT provides a clear and practical framework for understanding how our thoughts shape our emotions and behaviours. At its core, CBT is about liberation and deep emotional freedom.

Transactional
Analysis

TA is a powerful system for understanding how your life has been shaped by past decisions and unconscious patterns. It helps you uncover the key choices that have influenced your experiences, relationships, and sense of self. A central part of this process is identifying your “life script”, the internal narrative that guides your actions and beliefs. TA also reveals the games and patterns that keep you stuck. (Training: Link Centre Brighton)

Schema
Therapy

Schema Therapy is a natural extension of CBT, focusing on deep-rooted patterns formed in childhood. These schemas act like subconscious programs, shaping how we see reality, respond to challenges, and relate to others. By mapping out the core schemas driving your struggles, we uncover the patterns that keep you stuck. With powerful techniques, we work to disrupt and rewire these patterns. (Studied at the Schema Therapy school)

Acceptance & Commitment
Therapy

ACT is a powerful approach within the CBT family, offering a different perspective on emotional struggle. Instead of resisting or fighting your challenges, ACT teaches you how to accept them with openness while focusing on what truly matters. Through mindfulness, and value-driven action, ACT helps you break free from avoidance and live with greater clarity and purpose. Its core philosophy is simple yet profound: “Face your demons and honor your dreams. (Training: Mindfulness training school)

Gestalt
Coaching

Rooted in the California Human Potential Movement, Gestalt coaching is a powerful, present-focused approach to transformation. Rather than analysing what you think, Gestalt explores how you think, bringing deeper awareness to your patterns and behaviours. It helps you move beyond intellectual understanding and into direct experience, creating space for real change. Gestalt helps you break through obstacles, get unstuck and unlock new possibilities.(Kinharvie Institute)

Embodied Systemic
Coaching

Our challenges don’t exist in isolation—they are shaped by both our bodies and the systems we live in. Embodied Systemic Coaching explores the hidden influences behind your struggles, helping you understand the broader context that shapes your experiences. By tuning into your body’s wisdom and examining the systems around you, this approach brings new insights and fresh perspectives. As awareness expands, so does the potential for deep, lasting change. (Jenny Mackewn Coaching)

Evolutionary
Astrology

Astrology is my guilty secret, a profound tool that has brought me immense joy and insight. I practice psychological astrology, using your birth chart to uncover the core themes, strengths, and challenges that shape your life. Whatever you’re facing, it is always reflected in your astrological blueprint. Astrology offers deep answers for those seeking greater self-understanding, showing how each of us is here to learn, grow, and evolve (Training: Faculty of Astrological studies)

The
Enneagram

The Enneagram is an ancient and powerful personality system that reveals the core nature and challenges each of us face. By identifying your Enneagram type, you gain a deeper understanding of the key themes, patterns, and motivations that shape your thoughts and behaviors. At its core, the Enneagram shows that we each have a central life challenge—and by recognizing it, we unlock a clear map for personal growth and transformation. ( The Narrative Foundation, Colorado)

My journey of learning over the last 20 years.

Skills & training

Cognitive
Behavioural

My core training is in CBT and REBT, having completed an MSc at Goldsmiths, University of London. Recently I’ve worked for the NHS for two years as a Schema CBT therapist. Learning to question my own narratives and practice unconditional self-acceptance has been life changing. CBT provides a clear and practical framework for understanding how our thoughts shape our emotions and behaviours. At its core, CBT is about liberation and deep emotional freedom.

Transactional
Analysis

TA is a powerful system for understanding how your life has been shaped by past decisions and unconscious patterns. It helps you uncover the key choices that have influenced your experiences, relationships, and sense of self. A central part of this process is identifying your “life script”, the internal narrative that guides your actions and beliefs. TA also reveals the games and patterns that keep you stuck. (Training: Link Centre Brighton)

Schema
Therapy

Schema Therapy is a natural extension of CBT, focusing on deep-rooted patterns formed in childhood. These schemas act like subconscious programs, shaping how we see reality, respond to challenges, and relate to others. By mapping out the core schemas driving your struggles, we uncover the patterns that keep you stuck. With powerful techniques, we work to disrupt and rewire these patterns. (Studied at the Schema Therapy school)

Acceptance & Commitment
Therapy

ACT is a powerful approach within the CBT family, offering a different perspective on emotional struggle. Instead of resisting or fighting your challenges, ACT teaches you how to accept them with openness while focusing on what truly matters. Through mindfulness, and value-driven action, ACT helps you break free from avoidance and live with greater clarity and purpose. Its core philosophy is simple yet profound: “Face your demons and honor your dreams. (Training: Mindfulness training school)

Gestalt
Coaching

Rooted in the California Human Potential Movement, Gestalt coaching is a powerful, present-focused approach to transformation. Rather than analysing what you think, Gestalt explores how you think, bringing deeper awareness to your patterns and behaviours. It helps you move beyond intellectual understanding and into direct experience, creating space for real change. Gestalt helps you break through obstacles, get unstuck and unlock new possibilities.(Kinharvie Institute)

Embodied Systemic
Coaching

Our challenges don’t exist in isolation—they are shaped by both our bodies and the systems we live in. Embodied Systemic Coaching explores the hidden influences behind your struggles, helping you understand the broader context that shapes your experiences. By tuning into your body’s wisdom and examining the systems around you, this approach brings new insights and fresh perspectives. As awareness expands, so does the potential for deep, lasting change. (Jenny Mackewn Coaching)

Evolutionary
Astrology

Astrology is my guilty secret, a profound tool that has brought me immense joy and insight. I practice psychological astrology, using your birth chart to uncover the core themes, strengths, and challenges that shape your life. Whatever you’re facing, it is always reflected in your astrological blueprint. Astrology offers deep answers for those seeking greater self-understanding, showing how each of us is here to learn, grow, and evolve (Training: Faculty of Astrological studies)

The
Enneagram

The Enneagram is an ancient and powerful personality system that reveals the core nature and challenges each of us face. By identifying your Enneagram type, you gain a deeper understanding of the key themes, patterns, and motivations that shape your thoughts and behaviors. At its core, the Enneagram shows that we each have a central life challenge—and by recognizing it, we unlock a clear map for personal growth and transformation. ( The Narrative Foundation, Colorado)

My journey of learning over the last 20 years.

Skills & training

Cognitive
Behavioural

My core training is in CBT and REBT, having completed an MSc at Goldsmiths, University of London. Recently I’ve worked for the NHS for two years as a Schema CBT therapist. Learning to question my own narratives and practice unconditional self-acceptance has been life changing. CBT provides a clear and practical framework for understanding how our thoughts shape our emotions and behaviours. At its core, CBT is about liberation and deep emotional freedom.

Transactional
Analysis

TA is a powerful system for understanding how your life has been shaped by past decisions and unconscious patterns. It helps you uncover the key choices that have influenced your experiences, relationships, and sense of self. A central part of this process is identifying your “life script”, the internal narrative that guides your actions and beliefs. TA also reveals the games and patterns that keep you stuck. (Training: Link Centre Brighton)

Schema
Therapy

Schema Therapy is a natural extension of CBT, focusing on deep-rooted patterns formed in childhood. These schemas act like subconscious programs, shaping how we see reality, respond to challenges, and relate to others. By mapping out the core schemas driving your struggles, we uncover the patterns that keep you stuck. With powerful techniques, we work to disrupt and rewire these patterns. (Studied at the Schema Therapy school)

Acceptance & Commitment
Therapy

ACT is a powerful approach within the CBT family, offering a different perspective on emotional struggle. Instead of resisting or fighting your challenges, ACT teaches you how to accept them with openness while focusing on what truly matters. Through mindfulness, and value-driven action, ACT helps you break free from avoidance and live with greater clarity and purpose. Its core philosophy is simple yet profound: “Face your demons and honor your dreams. (Training: Mindfulness training school)

Gestalt
Coaching

Rooted in the California Human Potential Movement, Gestalt coaching is a powerful, present-focused approach to transformation. Rather than analysing what you think, Gestalt explores how you think, bringing deeper awareness to your patterns and behaviours. It helps you move beyond intellectual understanding and into direct experience, creating space for real change. Gestalt helps you break through obstacles, get unstuck and unlock new possibilities.(Kinharvie Institute)

Embodied Systemic
Coaching

Our challenges don’t exist in isolation—they are shaped by both our bodies and the systems we live in. Embodied Systemic Coaching explores the hidden influences behind your struggles, helping you understand the broader context that shapes your experiences. By tuning into your body’s wisdom and examining the systems around you, this approach brings new insights and fresh perspectives. As awareness expands, so does the potential for deep, lasting change. (Jenny Mackewn Coaching)

Evolutionary
Astrology

Astrology is my guilty secret, a profound tool that has brought me immense joy and insight. I practice psychological astrology, using your birth chart to uncover the core themes, strengths, and challenges that shape your life. Whatever you’re facing, it is always reflected in your astrological blueprint. Astrology offers deep answers for those seeking greater self-understanding, showing how each of us is here to learn, grow, and evolve (Training: Faculty of Astrological studies)

The
Enneagram

The Enneagram is an ancient and powerful personality system that reveals the core nature and challenges each of us face. By identifying your Enneagram type, you gain a deeper understanding of the key themes, patterns, and motivations that shape your thoughts and behaviors. At its core, the Enneagram shows that we each have a central life challenge—and by recognizing it, we unlock a clear map for personal growth and transformation. ( The Narrative Foundation, Colorado)

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I help individuals gain deep self-awareness, overcome emotional patterns, and create lasting transformation. Book a free call now.

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living your best life.

I help individuals gain deep self-awareness, overcome emotional patterns, and create lasting transformation. Book a free call now.

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Begin your journey now. Book a session and get started living your best life.

I help individuals gain deep self-awareness, overcome emotional patterns, and create lasting transformation. Book a free call now.

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